hindsight is 20/20

thebluthcompany: Bluth Family Love Banners.

Wed, 15 May 2013 23:13:02 -0400

thebluthcompany:

Bluth Family Love Banners.

Dutch National and San Francisco Ballet doing Cinderella! Happy...

Sun, 12 May 2013 12:32:46 -0400

Dutch National and San Francisco Ballet doing Cinderella! Happy Mother’s Day!❤ (at War Memorial Opera House)

thebluthcompany: The cast of Arrested Development in Leicester...

Fri, 10 May 2013 12:00:59 -0400

thebluthcompany:

The cast of Arrested Development in Leicester Square for the A.D. Season 4 UK Premiere.

narrcotics: Wedding of Sean Penn and Madonna - August, 1985

Fri, 10 May 2013 06:00:32 -0400

narrcotics:

Wedding of Sean Penn and Madonna - August, 1985

"Here’s the thing. Men in our culture have been socialized to believe that their opinions on women’s..."

Thu, 09 May 2013 18:32:54 -0400

“Here’s the thing. Men in our culture have been socialized to believe that their opinions on women’s appearance matter a lot. Not all men buy into this, of course, but many do. Some seem incapable of entertaining the notion that not everything women do with their appearance is for men to look at. This is why men’s response to women discussing stifling beauty norms is so often something like “But I actually like small boobs!” and “But I actually like my women on the heavier side, if you know what I mean!” They don’t realize that their individual opinion on women’s appearance doesn’t matter in this context, and that while it might be reassuring for some women to know that there are indeed men who find them fuckable, that’s not the point of the discussion.

Women, too, have been socialized to believe that the ultimate arbiters of their appearance are men, that anything they do with their appearance is or should be “for men.” That’s why women’s magazines trip over themselves to offer up advice on “what he wants to see you wearing” and “what men think of these current fashion trends” and “wow him with these new hairstyles.” While women can and do judge each other’s appearance harshly, many of us grew up being told by mothers, sisters, and female strangers that we’ll never “get a man” or “keep a man” unless we do X or lose some fat from Y, unless we moisturize//trim/shave/push up/hide/show/”flatter”/paint/dye/exfoliate/pierce/surgically alter this or that.

That’s also why when a woman wears revealing clothes, it’s okay, in our society, to assume that she’s “looking for attention” or that she’s a slut and wants to sleep with a bunch of guys. Because why else would a woman wear revealing clothes if not for the benefit of men and to communicate her sexual availability to them, right? It can’t possibly have anything to do with the fact that it’s hot out or it’s more comfortable or she likes how she looks in it or everything else is in the laundry or she wants to get a tan or maybe she likes women and wants attention from them, not from men?

The result of all this is that many men, even kind and well-meaning men, believe, however subconsciously, that women’s bodies are for them. They are for them to look at, for them to pass judgment on, for them to bless with a compliment if they deign to do so. They are not for women to enjoy, take pride in, love, accept, explore, show off, or hide as they please. They are for men and their pleasure.”

- Why You Shouldn’t Tell That Random Girl On The Street That She’s Hot » Brute Reason (via albinwonderland)

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Thu, 09 May 2013 18:01:27 -0400

queensassyofthefatties: Lewis’s law is an observation she made...

Thu, 09 May 2013 12:01:06 -0400

queensassyofthefatties:

Lewis’s law is an observation she made in 2012 that states “the comments on any article about feminism justify feminism.” Lewis has written frequently about misogynist hate directed at women online.^[8]

Can we just repeat that a few more times,

“The comments on any article about feminism justify feminism.”

“The comments on any article about feminism justify feminism.”

omg stop

Thu, 09 May 2013 06:00:48 -0400

omg stop

nihilisticc: brigwife: Accurate

Wed, 08 May 2013 18:00:59 -0400

nihilisticc:

brigwife:

Accurate

moosesmeeses: ME TODAY

Wed, 08 May 2013 12:17:02 -0400

moosesmeeses:

ME TODAY

I really loved this weekend.

Mon, 06 May 2013 23:15:31 -0400

I really loved this weekend.

kreayshawn: cat doesn’t want to get out of nice warm bath...

Thu, 02 May 2013 01:18:14 -0400

kreayshawn:

cat doesn’t want to get out of nice warm bath [x]

omggggg

westbor0baptistchurch: Glamorous by Fergie starts playing

Thu, 02 May 2013 01:14:37 -0400

westbor0baptistchurch:

*Glamorous by Fergie starts playing*

concealedsimplicity: infinite-paradox: Beach Stairs El...

Thu, 02 May 2013 01:10:50 -0400

concealedsimplicity:

infinite-paradox:

Beach Stairs

El Capitan beach. Santa Barbara, California… where I go every year for beach camping. Love this place!

hey ive been on these. i forgot all about that night.

humansofnewyork: “Do you want to buy some caramel sea salt...

Thu, 02 May 2013 01:09:28 -0400

humansofnewyork:

“Do you want to buy some caramel sea salt chocolate chip expresso brownies with walnuts and coconut? They have blue sparkles for a butterfly effect!”

(San Francisco, CA)

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Thu, 02 May 2013 00:59:50 -0400

trying to write the first paragraph of a thing

Thu, 02 May 2013 00:42:45 -0400

trying to write the first paragraph of a thing

nihilisticc: friends

Mon, 29 Apr 2013 12:01:17 -0400

nihilisticc:

friends

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Mon, 29 Apr 2013 06:00:54 -0400

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Mon, 29 Apr 2013 00:57:02 -0400